25 tips for women on the topic of relationships with men

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Some of the tips in this article may make you smile, and perhaps rethink your current and/or prepare for a future relationship.

Most of the advice applies equally to both sexes. If you have any tips of your own to share, feel free to leave your comment at the bottom of the article.

So let’s get started!

1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away from you.
2. If a man does not want you, nothing can force him to stay with you.
3. Let your intuition save you from suffering. Trust and appreciate your own feminine wisdom.
4. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship, you don’t have to. And don’t try to change your partner too, it just doesn’t work. The only person you can change is yourself. As painful as it is, sometimes it’s better to get out of a bad relationship and take a step towards your own happiness.
5. Slower is better. Some of the greatest love stories of all time took years to develop. Sure, “love at first sight” can be romanticized in movies, but like Rome, eternal love isn’t built in one day…
6. Never live your life for a person before finding something that makes you truly happy. (That means you first need to find your own happiness.) And remember: happiness is a journey, not a destination.
7. If the relationship ends because the person wasn’t the way you deserve to be with you, then hell no, you can’t “remain friends.” Friends don’t torture each other.
8. Don’t stay in a relationship hoping “it will get better.” You will be angry with yourself in a year when the situation does not change for the better.
9. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
10. Avoid men who have had a lot of children with a lot of different women. Such a man did not take responsibility when he made those women pregnant, so why would he treat you differently?
11. Always have your own set of friends separate from him.
12. Maintain the boundaries of how a man treats you, if something bothers you, tell him about it.
13. Remember that healthy relationships are built on trust, and trust takes time to develop. It would be unwise for you to share too much of yourself and about yourself.
14. You cannot change someone’s behavior. Change comes from within.
15. Never let him feel that he is more important than you, even if he has a better education or a better job. And never make him feel less important than you.
16. Do not make a god out of a man, he is a man, no more and no less.
17. Never let a man define who you really are. Be a queen, full of your own power and glory!
18. Never borrow someone else’s man! If he cheated with you, he will cheat on you too.
19. A man will treat you the way you let him treat you.
20. In a relationship, you don’t have to do everything alone. The best compromise is a two-way street.
21. You should never look for someone to complete you. Relationships are made up of two WHOLE persons. Look for someone who is complementary, not complementary.
22. Acquaintance is always interesting … even if he does not turn out to be Mr. Right …
23. Let him miss you sometimes. If a man always knows where you are and you are easily accessible to him, he may take you for granted. Remember that you have your own life in which he may not always be included.
24. Don’t give your all to someone who doesn’t listen to you and doesn’t try to meet your needs. Keep him on your radar and don’t stop meeting other men.
25. First of all, love yourself!

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